AS we approach Father’s Day, we take a moment to honour the steadfast influence of fathers and father figures in our lives. Whether it’s a biological dad, a stepfather, a grandfather, an uncle, or even our teachers, Teachers Aides, and sports coaches, many of us can think of someone who’s made a big difference just by being there for us.
There’s something unique about the role of a father.
And although they are rarely spoken about, our fathers are always deeply felt, especially in quiet moments of support.
A father’s love doesn’t always make headlines and it might not come with grand gestures or long speeches, but we’ve seen them in everyday things.
They show up. They listen.
And they stand by when things get tough.
These quiet moments of support are powerful and lasting.
Studies continue to show that an engaged and loving father figure makes a significant difference in a child’s life, and especially in their educational success.
Children who have consistent father figures tend to develop greater confidence and are better equipped to handle life’s challenges.
Being a great dad doesn’t mean they have to be perfect.
Far from it. In fact, one of the most powerful gifts a father can offer is the ability to model humility, patience, and persistence.
In our Catholic tradition, St Joseph stands as a beautiful example of this quiet strength.
He was not the biological father of Jesus, yet his role in the Holy Family was no less vital.
Joseph protected, guided, and loved with deep faith and steady action.
He was always present, and always supportive.
His story reminds us that fatherhood is not defined by biology alone, but by the intentional choice to love, nurture, and lead.
Fathers and father figures help shape who we are.
They play a vital role in helping children develop their identity and values and they help us learn what’s important, like being responsible, showing empathy, and doing the right thing.
Whether it’s learning to ride a bike, working on a school project, or just chatting at the end of a long day, these shared moments help build strong values and lifelong memories.
In schools, we see the difference it makes when a father or father figure is actively involved. When dads come to the classroom, attend school events, or support their children’s learning at home, they show that education matters and that their children are worth their time and attention.
These actions not only build academic achievements but also strong emotional foundations.
Fatherhood can look different in every family.
Some families have one dad. Some may have more dads than others.
Some children are raised by grandfathers, uncles, older brothers or close family friends.
But what matters most is the love and support behind the role. Being present and showing up, time and time again, that’s what children remember.
This month, we give thanks to the men who show up, for the ones who pack lunches, help with homework, cheer on the sidelines, and offer a steady presence.
We acknowledge that fatherhood can look different in every family, but at its core is the same universal truth: that love, guidance, and encouragement from a father figure helps children flourish.
As a community, let us continue to support fathers in their journey, through connection, understanding, and appreciation. And let us extend kindness to those for whom Father’s Day is complex or difficult.
While no one person can do it all, each of us can be a source of strength and hope in someone’s life.
Happy Father’s Day to the dads, grandads, and all the father-figures who lead with love, and who actively support and participate in their child’s educational journey.
By Stephen PARES, Executive General Manager – School Services, Lismore Diocese
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