DEATH is one of life’s few certainties, yet it remains one of our least talked-about experiences.
This Dying to Know Day, on 8 August 2026, the newly formed Mid North Coast Grief Collective is inviting people to come together and explore what it means to live well by talking openly about dying.
Two local grief educators, Kellie Hartnell White and Rod Cole, plan to host a series of events in the region, starting with a discussion on 8 August at Port Macquarie Library from 2:30pm to 4pm.
The free 90-minute event and afternoon tea will look at the dying process, explore what we more fear about dying and what we hope for equipping people with a guide to how to prepare for a conversation.
Dying to Know Day is a national Australian campaign that encourages individuals, families and communities to approach the inevitable not with fear, but with intention, tenderness and curiosity. By opening these conversations, we can better prepare ourselves and those we care about for one of life’s most profound journeys.
“We make time to celebrate and plan for so many important milestones in our lives, yet conversations about dying are often avoided,” say the event’s facilitators.
“This gathering is an opportunity to gently explore the topic together, ask questions, share perspectives and discover how talking about death can help us live more intentionally.”
Whether you’ve experienced loss, are supporting someone who is grieving, or simply want to feel more comfortable having these important conversations, everyone is welcome.
No prior experience or knowledge is needed – just an open mind and a willingness to listen and reflect.
By speaking openly about death, we can reduce fear, strengthen our connections with one another, and ensure our wishes and values are understood. These conversations are ultimately about living with greater intention, compassion and peace.
With the end in mind, let’s talk about how to live and die well.
Regards,
Rod Cole and Kellie Hartnell White,
Grief educators.
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